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Presumably you need to create a loadbalancer service?

ok, thanks @cold-ambulance-6848

Ingresses have their addresses assigned by the Ingress controller, which runs as a daemonset by default on RKE2, so you will see the node IPs there. If you want things to have a virtual IP from the load-balancer controller, then you need to be using Services of type: LoadBalancer, instead of Ingresses.