this is present in lima.ha.stderror.log
shows these errors, not sure where the problem is 

{"error":"exec: \"/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\": stat /opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet: no such file or directory","level":"debug","msg":"Failed to look up socket_vmnet path \"/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:04-07:00"}
{"error":"exec: \"socket_vmnet\": executable file not found in $PATH","level":"debug","msg":"Failed to look up socket_vmnet path \"socket_vmnet\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:04-07:00"}
{"error":"exec: \"/usr/local/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\": stat /usr/local/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet: no such file or directory","level":"debug","msg":"Failed to look up socket_vmnet path \"/usr/local/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:04-07:00"}
{"error":"exec: \"/opt/homebrew/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\": stat /opt/homebrew/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet: no such file or directory","level":"debug","msg":"Failed to look up socket_vmnet path \"/opt/homebrew/opt/socket_vmnet/bin/socket_vmnet\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:04-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Creating iso file /Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/cidata.iso","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Using /var/folders/m6/8y7j9m1j077c13hjd0rd3ln40000gq/T/diskfs_iso1177744831 as workspace","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Failed to detect CPU features. Assuming that AES acceleration is available on this Apple silicon.","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"OpenSSH version 9.7.1 detected","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"AES accelerator seems available, prioritizing aes128-gcm@openssh.com and aes256-gcm@openssh.com","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"hostagent socket created at /Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ha.sock","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Starting VZ (hint: to watch the boot progress, see \"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/serial*.log\")","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Start udp DNS listening on: 127.0.0.1:59049","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Start tcp DNS listening on: 127.0.0.1:65266","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Using search domains: [corp.intuit.net]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"new connection from  to ","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"[VZ] - vm state change: \"VirtualMachineStateStarting\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the essential requirement 1 of 2: \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"[VZ] - vm state change: running","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"ssh\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=***** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"ssh: connect to host 127.0.0.1 port 65263: Connection refused\\r\\n\", err=failed to execute script \"ssh\": stdout=\"\", stderr=\"ssh: connect to host 127.0.0.1 port 65263: Connection refused\\r\\n\": exit status 255","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:05-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the essential requirement 1 of 2: \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:15-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:15-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"ssh\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=****** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:15-07:00"}
2024/09/27 09:35:18 tcpproxy: for incoming conn 127.0.0.1:65286, error dialing "192.168.5.15:22": connect tcp 192.168.5.15:22: no route to host
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"kex_exchange_identification: read: Connection reset by peer\\r\\nConnection reset by 127.0.0.1 port 65263\\r\\n\", err=failed to execute script \"ssh\": stdout=\"\", stderr=\"kex_exchange_identification: read: Connection reset by peer\\r\\nConnection reset by 127.0.0.1 port 65263\\r\\n\": exit status 255","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:18-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the essential requirement 1 of 2: \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:28-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:28-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"ssh\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=***** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:28-07:00"}
2024/09/27 09:35:28 tcpproxy: for incoming conn 127.0.0.1:65309, error dialing "192.168.5.15:22": connect tcp 192.168.5.15:22: connection was refused
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"kex_exchange_identification: read: Connection reset by peer\\r\\nConnection reset by 127.0.0.1 port 65263\\r\\n\", err=failed to execute script \"ssh\": stdout=\"\", stderr=\"kex_exchange_identification: read: Connection reset by peer\\r\\nConnection reset by 127.0.0.1 port 65263\\r\\n\": exit status 255","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:28-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the essential requirement 1 of 2: \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:38-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:38-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"ssh\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/******/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=***** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:38-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"\", err=\u003cnil\u003e","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"The essential requirement 1 of 2 is satisfied","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the essential requirement 2 of 2: \"user session is ready for ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"user session is ready for ssh\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"user session is ready for ssh\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=***** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"+ timeout 30s bash -c 'until sudo diff -q /run/lima-ssh-ready /mnt/lima-cidata/meta-data 2\u003e/dev/null; do sleep 3; done'\\n\", err=\u003cnil\u003e","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"The essential requirement 2 of 2 is satisfied","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the guest agent to be running","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"Forwarding unix sockets","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Forwarding \"/var/run/docker.sock\" (guest) to \"/Users/*****/.rd/docker.sock\" (host)","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Guest agent is running","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"guest agent info: local_ports:{ip:\"0.0.0.0\"  port:22}  local_ports:{ip:\"::\"  port:22}","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Waiting for the final requirement 1 of 1: \"boot scripts must have finished\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing script \"boot scripts must have finished\"","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"guest agent event: local_ports_added:{ip:\"0.0.0.0\"  port:22}  local_ports_added:{ip:\"::\"  port:22}","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Not forwarding TCP 0.0.0.0:22","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"executing ssh for script \"boot scripts must have finished\": /usr/bin/ssh [ssh -F /dev/null -o IdentityFile=\"/Users/*****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/_config/user\" -o StrictHostKeyChecking=no -o UserKnownHostsFile=/dev/null -o NoHostAuthenticationForLocalhost=yes -o GSSAPIAuthentication=no -o PreferredAuthentications=publickey -o Compression=no -o BatchMode=yes -o IdentitiesOnly=yes -o Ciphers=\"^aes128-gcm@openssh.com,aes256-gcm@openssh.com\" -o User=***** -o ControlMaster=auto -o ControlPath=\"/Users/****/Library/Application Support/rancher-desktop/lima/0/ssh.sock\" -o ControlPersist=yes -p 65263 127.0.0.1 -- /bin/bash]","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"Not forwarding TCP [::]:22","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"debug","msg":"stdout=\"\", stderr=\"+ timeout 30s bash -c 'until sudo diff -q /run/lima-boot-done /mnt/lima-cidata/meta-data 2\u003e/dev/null; do sleep 3; done'\\n\", err=\u003cnil\u003e","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}
{"level":"info","msg":"The final requirement 1 of 1 is satisfied","time":"2024-09-27T09:35:39-07:00"}