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Found a soluiton here: https://slack-archive.rancher.com/t/15735746/anyone-seeing-the-following-error-while-upgrading-thread ran

kubectl delete secret -A -l status=pending-upgrade

Is it solved?

Yes, though one node has been stuck for about 6 hours. rebooting it now. it's vacated all VMs but hasn't upgraded.